Dressing
Your toddler can help with getting dressed by pushing their arm through their sleeve or offering a leg for trousers. They can pull on a hat and shoes. They will be making some progress with undressing too if you have been teaching them what to do. They can take off a pyjamas bottoms and top. You can start to teach them how to dress too.
Teaching the last step first is a teaching technique, called backward chaining, that can help children learn how to do complicated tasks. Backward chaining is when you break a task down into it's different steps and then teach the last step first. Once the child can do the last step you teach the second last step and so on until they can do every task. It works great for teaching dressing skills.
If we think about a putting on a t-shirt, to start with you would follow these steps:
- you would get the t-shirt the right way round and ready to put on
- you would pull the t-shirt over their head
- you would help them get their arms into the sleeves
- your child would pull the t-shirt down.
You repeat this until your child pulls the t-shirt down every time. They might learn this quickly or it might take some time. Keep practicing every time you are changing your child. Next you want them to put their arms into the sleeve and pull the t-shirt down. Once they can do that every time, you hand them the t-shirt ready to put on and get them to put it over their head, put their arms into the sleeves and then pull the t-shirt down. Choose one garment at a time to work on.
Learning to get the clothes the right way round is really hard so this will be the last step they learn and it will take a long time to master this so focus on just putting the clothes on.
Eating and Drinking
Your toddler can use a spoon to feed themselves, they might still be a bit messy though. You could now teach your toddler to use a fork. Let them try using a fork at mealtimes but play with forks too. Give your toddler a fork while you are cooking. Involve them in simple food preparation, baking and cooking activities. Toddlers love to copy their care givers. There are ideas about Cooking at Home at different stages on the British Dietetic Associations website. Shopping is a great time to explore food too. Find out more from CBeebies Parenting Fun at the supermarket with baby.
Going to the toilet
Your toddler may be able to tell you they need a pee or a poo. They may also let you know if they have a wet or dirty nappy. It might be time to think about toilet (potty) training. Lots of children find learning this skill challenging. For children with additional support needs the journey might look different and may take longer.
For toilet training typically developing children look at:
If your child has additional support needs look at:
Hygiene
Your toddler can be helping with lots of their hygiene tasks like washing and brushing their hair. Find out more about hygiene for toddlers and children:
Teeth Brushing

Brushing your teeth is an essential part of looking after your body. You should be brushing your child's teeth at least twice a day. You can find out more from: